Relatedness

Readings

  • A society must assign individual names, identities, roles, interests, and statuses. This entails establishing and perpetuating corporate groups.
  • Kinship is one universal way of making and maintaining such groups. (not the only way)
  • 3 principles of kinship system: Marriage; Residence; Descent (血统)
  • Other sub-issues such as gender, domestic, and property relations with the interconnections they make significantly shape the experience of the society.
  • In addition, non-kinship characters can also be sued to create corporate groups
    • Sex/gender, age, race, common interest, class/socio-economic status.

People who are “special”

  • Kinship - the fundamental form of relatedness
    • Consanguineal - by descent, united “blood”
    • Affinal - by marriage, your own or someone else’s
    • These are not imagined community, but it is the model of imagined communities (the ideal “brotherhood)
      • Potentially excludes others (only includes the people within the brotherhood)
  • Lewis Henry Morgan: believes family is the building block of modern society
  • Franz Boas: father of American Anthropology (An Anthropologist’s Credo)
    • “It is conviction that the fundamental ethical point of view is that of the in-group, which must be expanded to include all humanity.”
  • “All men shall be brothers” - by Friedrich Schiller, version of the poem ”Ode to Joy” set to music in Ludwig van Beethoven’s 9th symphony
    • Can all people be brothers

Descent groups (family & kin)

  • Corporate groups: share identity, economic and other practical functions, may share residence; act as a unit towards others.

    • The basic building block of social organization
    • Society: a group of groups
  • Descent is essentially biological, but it can be ascribed

    Adoption, fostering (in Pulau Langkawi, eating together)

Lineages

  • Patrilineage - everyone descended from same male line (mother is not part of the lineage)

  • Matrilineage - reckoned on the female side only (father is not part of the lineage)

    • Most matrilineage society is still patriarchy based

    • Most powerful male relative is Mother’s Brother (more than father)

    Wendat (Wyandot, Huron), Haudenosaunee (Iroquois)

  • Kinship systems is classified differently in different societies (even with biological relationships such as “mother” and “father”)

    • The Hawaiian, Sudanese, and Inuit (Eskimo) system:

      • Triangle - male; Circle - female; “ego” - the centre of perspective; ”=” - marriage
      • first 3 on test

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Different relatedness

  • Emotion (affect) towards people with the same kinship role tends to be similar

    • Traditional Hawaiian daughter would feel much the same about her biological mother and her biological aunts
    • ==Feelings of kinship are socially constructed (doesn’t mean its not real)==
      • Can be defined by imaged “substance” (blood, - “blood relations”)

    “I’m my own grandpa” - the marriages mentioned are legal but culturally inappropriate (bit Incest)

  • Residence - multiple families live in the House. Hearth is where women spend most of their lives, don’t normally eat elsewhere

    • People recognize belonging to the same house as a relationship
  • ==Commensality (eating together) strengths the relationship among members of the house==

    • Important in building forms fo relatedness, cross-culturally

    • Performs, conforms and creates relationships

    • Siblings are conceived of people who eat together

    Relatedness among Malay in Pulau Langkawi (by Janet Carsten) (Won)

    • Argued in 1995 for overlap between the social and the biological in Malay relatedness
    • “The core substance of kinship in local perceptions is blood, and the major contribution to blood is food” (especially rice)
  • Siblings

    • The placenta is considered as a younger sibling (until “real” sibling is born), buried near house
      • Because they are both nourished by the mother’s blood in the womb (become milk)
    • Uterus - the siblings’ first house; placenta - child’s first commensal relation
  • Fostering relations

    • Common in Palau Langkawi, very common among Indigenous group is Canada
      • Milk siblings - people who had drunk the same mother’s milk
      • Marriage among milk sibling would be incestuous
    • Commensality then would create the relatedness
    • Contributes to flexibility of relatedness
  • Relatedness is the result of social behaviour as well as brith

  • Actual relationships does not determine degree of relatedness

    • Palau Langkawi: living in the house or moved out
    • Toronto: sister or half-sister

Marriage patterns

  • A reproductive alliance between families (does not need legal connection)

  • Does not just involve the two (or more) people married, its involve their entire family

  • The basic element for perpetuating relatedness Mong different descent groups (families)

  • Legal marriage is only one form of what anthropologists call marriage

  • Find marriage partner

    • Independent self-selection (love marriage)

    • Arranged marriage - (exchange of women between allied families, conducted by men)

      • Sometimes for practical considerations (economic, health…) [wealth is important]

        Kerala Brahmin Wedding

Types of marraige

  • Exogamy - marry outside the group

    Gender, close kin (defined by each society), longhouse group (Amazon river “tribes”)

  • Endogamy - marry within the group

    Age, social class, religion, “race” or ethnic group

  • May be absolute and/or legal, or relative and informal

  • Same-sex marriage

    • Typically the result of self-selection
    • Legalized in many contemporary jurisdictions
    • Informal same-sex marriage is older and more widespread than legal same-sex marriage
    • Two-spirited - LGBTQ, non-binary behaviors in indigenous marriage alliances
      • Many traditional indigenous groups in North America were very flexible on the relationship between physiology and gender roles
      • Called Berdache, and were persecuted by Europeans and the behavior was discouraged